http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Upsert
Insert Update stored proc on SQL Server
Is there some clever way to do this in SQLite that I have not thought of?
The best approach I know is to do an update, followed by an insert. The "overhead of a select" is necessary, but it is not a terrible burden since you are searching on the primary key, which is fast.
You should be able to modify the below statements with your table & field names to do what you want.
--first, update any matches
UPDATE DESTINATION_TABLE DT
SET
MY_FIELD1 = (
SELECT MY_FIELD1
FROM SOURCE_TABLE ST
WHERE ST.PRIMARY_KEY = DT.PRIMARY_KEY
)
,MY_FIELD2 = (
SELECT MY_FIELD2
FROM SOURCE_TABLE ST
WHERE ST.PRIMARY_KEY = DT.PRIMARY_KEY
)
WHERE EXISTS(
SELECT ST2.PRIMARY_KEY
FROM
SOURCE_TABLE ST2
,DESTINATION_TABLE DT2
WHERE ST2.PRIMARY_KEY = DT2.PRIMARY_KEY
);
--second, insert any non-matches
INSERT INTO DESTINATION_TABLE(
MY_FIELD1
,MY_FIELD2
)
SELECT
ST.MY_FIELD1
,NULL AS MY_FIELD2 --insert NULL into this field
FROM
SOURCE_TABLE ST
WHERE NOT EXISTS(
SELECT DT2.PRIMARY_KEY
FROM DESTINATION_TABLE DT2
WHERE DT2.PRIMARY_KEY = ST.PRIMARY_KEY
);