I need to retrieve all rows from a table where 2 columns combined are all different. So I want all the sales that do not have any other sales that happened on the same day f
The problem with your query is that when using a GROUP BY clause (which you essentially do by using distinct) you can only use columns that you group by or aggregate functions. You cannot use the column id because there are potentially different values. In your case there is always only one value because of the HAVING clause, but most RDBMS are not smart enough to recognize that.
This should work however (and doesn't need a join):
UPDATE sales
SET status='ACTIVE'
WHERE id IN (
SELECT MIN(id) FROM sales
GROUP BY saleprice, saledate
HAVING COUNT(id) = 1
)
You could also use MAX or AVG instead of MIN, it is only important to use a function that returns the value of the column if there is only one matching row.