Another aggregate variation, avoiding the formula interface, which actually complicates matters in this instance:
aggregate(list(Sum=unlist(dat)), list(Group=LETTERS[c(row(dat) + col(dat))-1]), FUN=sum)
# Group Sum
#1 A 8
#2 B 13
#3 C 13
#4 D 28
#5 E 10
#6 F 18
#7 G 2