I\'m using IntelliJ/Cursive to write Clojure. I found out that the only way to erase parenthesis is to totally erase the content inside them, and only then, the parenthesis can
From the docs:
Structural editing comes enabled for Clojure code by default. If you don't like it, you can turn it off at Settings→Editor→General→Smart Keys→Use structural editing. If you'd like to toggle it on and off quickly, you can use the widget in the status bar at the bottom of the screen, or you can use the Edit→Structural Editing→Toggle Structural Editing Style action. If you find yourself doing that a lot you can even assign a shortcut key to the action.