Since jdk 8u40, I\'m using the new javafx.scene.control.Alert
API to display a confirmation dialog. In the example below, \"Yes\" button is focused by default inste
I am not sure if the following is the way to usually do this, but you could change the default button by looking up the buttons and setting the default-behavior yourself:
public boolean showConfirmDialog(String title, String header, String content, AlertType alertType) {
final Alert alert = new Alert(alertType);
alert.setTitle(title);
alert.setHeaderText(header);
alert.setContentText(content);
alert.getButtonTypes().clear();
alert.getButtonTypes().addAll(ButtonType.YES, ButtonType.NO);
//Deactivate Defaultbehavior for yes-Button:
Button yesButton = (Button) alert.getDialogPane().lookupButton( ButtonType.YES );
yesButton.setDefaultButton( false );
//Activate Defaultbehavior for no-Button:
Button noButton = (Button) alert.getDialogPane().lookupButton( ButtonType.NO );
noButton.setDefaultButton( true );
final Optional result = alert.showAndWait();
return result.get() == ButtonType.YES;
}