A few things to consider:
- True, you can do LTW during class loading, but not after a class has already been loaded.
- There is no such concept as class unloading because for a class to be unloaded it needs to be garbage-collected and for that no references to the class must exist anymore. Even if the latter was the case, the JVM specification AFAIK declares it as optional whether or not and when unloading or GC should clear off an already loaded class. You could never rely on it.
Having said that, you either can try concepts such as OSGi or write your own class loader (or find one of many existing ones on the Internet) which loads each class or each JAR in a separate classloader instance. This can get arbitrarily complex, so maybe you want to consider this simple approach as long as it is within the technical bounds of your situation:
- Compile your aspects into your code or use LTW, it does not really matter. Just make sure that the aspect code is woven before the classes are actually used. Compile time is obviously more than soon enough, load time is just barely soon enough, but fine.
- Use if() pointcuts for all relevant advice and provide a means to dynamically change the value of the variable used by the pointcuts so as to be enable to dynamically switch advice on and off. The performance overhead will usually be minimal, don't worry. Just give it a try before you say it is too expensive.
This solution satisfies your conditions that it can be (de)activated dynamically and that no JVM restart is necessary after the aspect code has been woven.