I have some Perl code that executes a shell script for multiple parameters, to simplify, I\'ll just assume that I have code that looks like this:
for $p (@a){
Converting to fork() might be difficult, but it is the correct tool. system() is a blocking call; you're getting the non-blocking behavior by executing a shell and telling it to run your scripts in the background. That means that Perl has no idea what the PIDs of the children might be, which means your script does not know what to wait for.
You could try to communicate the PIDs up to the Perl script, but that quickly gets out of hand. Use fork().