The other day I updated to Mac OSX Lion. It broke my rails install as I had to re complie mysql. While I have got that working reinstalling the mysql2 gem has become problematic
Don't know if this will help, but lemme try.
To make mysql2 gem working under my OSX Lion, running Ruby 1.8.7:
Install mysql - Download mysql-5.5.14-osx10.6-x86_64
Create an alias inside .bash_profile to mysql e MySQLCOM
alias mysql="/usr/local/mysql/bin/mysql"
alias mysqld="sudo /Library/StartupItems/MySQLCOM/MySQLCOM"
Install gem 'mysql2', '0.3.6'
Create this symbolic link:
sudo ln -s /usr/local/mysql/lib/libmysqlclient.18.dylib /usr/lib/libmysqlclient.18.dylib