Not really sure about the others but in my case it didn't work with a "Runnable jar" and i got it working by fixing codes together from phchen2 answer and another from this link :How to get the path of a running JAR file?
The code:
String path=new java.io.File(Server.class.getProtectionDomain()
.getCodeSource()
.getLocation()
.getPath())
.getAbsolutePath();
path=path.substring(0, path.lastIndexOf("."));
path=path+System.getProperty("java.class.path");