I\'m trying to figure out if there is a library that gives me something near the equivalent of Windows custom performance counters (described here http://geekswithblogs.net/.NET
In addition to @user964970 comment/solution, I suggest making it OS agnostic.
Use an OS agnostic API, like ACE or BOOST, to create your own library, supplying a named-semaphore write-protected-counter, placed inside a named-shared-memory segment.
This should be your library's API :
long * createCounter(const char * name); // Create a counter
// Will create a named semaphore and a named
// shared memory segment, holding the counter
// value. Will return pointer to counter
long * getCounter(const char * name); // Get existing counter pointer
// in the calling process' address space
long incCounter(const char * name); // increment existing counter