This question is almost identical to How to efficiently count the number of keys/properties of an object in JavaScript?.
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After a bit of research, there is no way to determine the number of keys in a JavaScript Object in constant time, at least not in Node... and not quite yet. Node internally keeps track of this information, but it does not expose it, since there is no method to do so in ECMA-262 5th.
It's worth noting that Harmony (ECMA version 6) may natively support Maps and Sets. Not sure what the spec for these will turn out to be.
I am told that we need to bring this up with TC39 committee.
Bug report for V8: http://code.google.com/p/v8/issues/detail?id=1800