my html looks like this
Solution here http://jsfiddle.net/QxdnZ/1/
var checked = $("#div1 :radio:checked");
var groups = [];
$("#div1 :radio").each(function() {
if (groups.indexOf(this.name) < 0) {
groups.push(this.name);
}
});
if (groups.length == checked.length) {
alert('all are checked!');
}
else {
var total = groups.length - checked.length;
var a = total>1?' groups are ':' group is ';
alert(total + a + 'not selected');
}