SELECT x.name, SUM(x.cnt)
FROM ( SELECT [name], COUNT(*) AS cnt
FROM [MyTable]
GROUP BY [name]
UNION ALL
SELECT [name], COUNT(*) AS cnt
FROM [MyTable2]
GROUP BY [name]
UNION ALL
SELECT [name], COUNT(*) AS cnt
FROM [MyTable3]
GROUP BY [name]
) AS x
GROUP BY x.name