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You need to monkey-patch max-length in several places: model-field's description, form-field's description and max-length validators. Max-length validators are attached to form-fields as well as model-fields.
Here is a code snippet, which will patch everything:
https://gist.github.com/1143957 (tested with django 1.2 and 1.3)
Update: Good news! Since django 1.5 you can override user model: Customizing the User model