Note that this question applies to Ember Data pre-1.0 beta, the mechanism for loading relationships via URL has changed significantly post-1.0 beta!
Here is my solution but it is on Ember-data 0.14, so the world has moved on, even if we are still on this code base:
findHasMany: function(store, record, relationship, details) {
if(relationship.key !== 'activities') {
return;
}
var type = relationship.type,
root = this.rootForType(type),
url = this.url + details.url,
self = this;
this.ajax(url, "GET", {
data: {page: 1}
}).then(function(json) {
var data = record.get('data'),
ids = [],
references = json[relationship.key];
ids = references.map(function(ref){
return ref.id;
});
data[relationship.key] = ids;
record.set('data', data);
self.didFindMany(store, type, json);
record.suspendRelationshipObservers(function() {
record.hasManyDidChange(relationship.key);
});
}).then(null, DS.rejectionHandler);
},
I found replacing the data with the ids worked for me.