I have a simple file transfer socket program where one socket sends file data and another socket receives the data and writes to a file
I need to send an acknowledgme
Writing and reading from a socket are separate. You can try to close a socket for writing and leave it open for reading.
See http://docs.python.org/library/socket.html#socket.socket.shutdown
Also, what FTP does is use two sockets: one for data, and one for this "confirmation".
You'd be happier using a second socket for this additional metadata.