The Facebook Crawler is hitting my servers multiple times every second and it seems to be ignoring both the Expires header and the og:ttl property.
In some cases, it is
@Nico suggests
We had same problems on our website/server. The problem was the og:url metatag. After removing it, the problem was solved for most facebookexternalhit calls.
og:url
So you could try removing that and see if it fixes the problem