General overhead of creating a TCP connection

Question

I\'d like to know the general cost of creating a new connection, compared to UDP. I know TCP requires an initial exchange of packets (the 3 way handshake). What would be other

Answer 1

Once a UDP packet's been dumped onto the wire, the UDP protocol stack is free to completely forget about it. With TCP, there's at bare minimum the connection details (source/dest port and source/dest IP), the sequence number, the window size for the connection etc... It's not a huge amount of data, but adds up quickly on a busy server with many connections.

And then there's the 3-way handshake as well. Some braindead (and/or malicious systems) can abuse the process (look up 'syn flood'), or just drop the connection on their end, leaving your system waiting for a response or close notice that'll never come. The plus side is that with TCP the system will do its best to make sure the packet gets where it has to. With UDP, there's no guarantees at all.